At the point of this experience, I was in my second year of university, and my boyfriend Adam used to regularly spend weekends at my off-campus apartment. I can’t remember how the idea struck, but I know for sure it came from me, and that Adam was very nervous about it. It was about 10 o’clock at night when I proposed the idea to Adam. He immediately asked me if it was safe and if there weren’t security guards. He wasn’t a university student, so I just brushed off his questions with “don’t worry about it, I know where to go”.