I hadn't seen this lover in 10 months or so. Why? He was, in some ways, a perfect "Friend" with Benefits. I didn't see any relationship potential with him at all - and therefore was able to simply enjoy the moments and the sex. When it came to the sex, was he the best? No, not by a long shot. But the sex was good.
I heard from him on POF, shortly after re-joining: "Your new pics look great btw, wow. Very nice :)"
I simply responded "thank you".
To which he countered "are you free tonight?"