Background: I am a 24 year old Asian girl who come from a strict, religious-type family. I could never have a boy over, couldn't have sleepovers (even with my girl friends), had to report where I was if I was allowed out, and of course, no boyfriends. Well, with an upbringing like that, there was only 2 ways I could grow up: 1) Be extremely obedient and followed all rules to a T, 2) Be rebellious.