I'll start with a bit of background so that 1.) you know what we look like and 2.) can understand how I was able to "unintentionally" cheat, because for most people that probably doesn't sound like something you can do without knowing you're doing it.
I met my wife, Emma, while she was in undergrad and I was a grad student. She was 20 and I was 24. We hit it off pretty much instantly.