Some years ago, I worked in the restaurant business and as often happens, we all flirted a little and had fun at work. It made the shifts go by a little easier. These were mostly innocent, but I found the attention of one of the cooks, Cat, too much of a distraction, due in part to the fact I couldn't exactly figure out what it was about her that was so magnetic. I mean, no disrespect, but she wasn't that smoking hot, over the top type you might think. She was really the "girl next door", pony tail for work, kinda average in every way looking girl.