Nick and I met on Tinder and had been fucking off and on for about a month. We had talked some about what we both liked in bed, but were still very much getting to know each other. He was always very polite and respectful, and he (and I) hadn’t yet figured out that I might not actually want that during sex. We had a lot of mutual friends, and after a late night out one Friday, we ended up back at his apartment, but were too drunk and tired to do anything except sleep. We hadn’t really defined yet if we were going to just be fuck buddies or also hang out as friends.