Years ago, I had just graduated high school in Sacramento and ended my 3 year relationship with my high school boyfriend. At the time, I had just turned 18 and was wanting complete freedom (due to the strictness of my asian parents) and of course I wanted complete change since I have slept with only one guy ever at the time for three years straight (i'm now married and currently head over heels with my gorgeous husband). Curiously, I joined OKCupid where I met Troy, who was 10 years my senior and boy, my craving was never the same.