I have this friend, let’s call him Tim. He was one of the first people I met when I started university, and before long we were both part of a close group of friends. Right from the beginning, there was always a bit of an attraction between the two of us. In fact, at a Halloween party in our first year, we got drunk, made out a bit, and ended up back in his room. At the time, however, I was young and inexperienced and had recently broken up with my high school boyfriend, so when his hands started drifting below the waist, I panicked and made an excuse to leave.