So we've been using this app that is like "tinder for couples" and last night started talking to this couple that seemed cute from the few pictures and were really down to meet up, like that night, immediately. He kept talking about how horny his wife was for me. (Me: 41F bi, husband 39M male (Bob), her 28F bi (Marie), him 29M straight (Luke). So we just decided to go for it and had them over since we didn't have a babysitter. When they showed up I was immediately relieved that were cool, normal, and attractive but no TOO attractive which woul have made me feel insecure.