It was a couple years ago. I had connected with another Redditor who liked my stories online and we had been exchanging messages. She lived in Germany, a few hours from me, so we both knew it would only be a matter of time before we met. She was married, but frustrated, and our texting grew more flirtatious the infidelity became part of the kink. It wasn’t just that she wanted some more, the fact it was a secret made it better.