I discovered a lot about a friend when I finally manned up and asked her what she was into. She had always hinted that she was a little kinky, but I had never acted on that, mostly because I didn't want to devalue the friendship she and I had. Sure enough though, she wanted to be tied up, spanked, etc. etc. just like every other girl who had read 50 shades of grey. Knowing that it's not the best representation of a BDSM style of living, I reluctantly agreed to show her the ropes.
