This could almost be a success story, but I didn't use RAOBJ, and it wasn't a success (for me).
We met thru another app. I wanted a release, and he was very eager to oblige, or so it appeared.
After getting a bit lost, I found it. Didn't look like anything special, but very nice on the inside. He was very much in shape and made me jealous of his fitness level. We chatted for a few mins. I was extremely nervous and visible shaking. It only subsided when we got started and I stripped down.