I'm not a very good writer, but I've had some good experiences in the past, so I thought I'd share on of them.
I had a long term girlfriend at the time, but we just weren't in love anymore. We were like roommates, not lovers. I should have ended it sooner, but I didn't. Yeah I'm a prick, I know that.
I've always been a bigger, muscular guy. I've always kept to myself at the gym, went there did my workout, and left. Like most bodybuilder type guys, I did have some body insecurities to deal with.