Last week I met up with a woman I had connected with on craigslist. Remarkably, I found a posting from someone who was looking for exactly what I wanted. She wanted only to receive oral from a guy, nothing else. I wanted only to give oral to a woman, nothing else. A perfect match! Except of course that we lived in different towns, had conflicting schedules, and in general there was some natural distrust that we were both being honest about exactly what we wanted. After 3-4 weeks of occasional back and forth, we agreed to meet for a no-obligation coffee near her place in downtown Toronto.