The following took place a little over ten years ago while still in college.
While I have and currently identify as straight, I had fantisized about submitting to another man for years and finally worked up the courage to post an ad. Of all the replies, this guy felt like the least threatening. He seemed nice, a little chubby, but he wore it well.
We were both a little nervous when he came over, I offered him a beer to help break the tension. We bsed a little bit, mostly about photography, when he suddenly cut in,