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Hook up with Vegan Asexual Friend who is in a relationship, twice! (Apparently vegan condoms are a thing) | 2016

I have a bit of strange story for you guys, but I know you all will appreciate it. I am in my second year of university, and recently found myself in an interesting situation involving a girl already in a long term long distance relationship. Basically, I totally fell for her, and after a while I let her know how I felt. Nothing happened immediately, however a day later when I dropped her off at the airport she pulled me to the side and said "I need to know something" and pulled me in for a kiss. There was an immediate spark between the two of us, and I couldn't let her go without having another, deeper kiss in the elevator. It was one of those incredibly deep kisses, where your emotions are spiking in every direction possible and you feel like you are melting together, almost like a really good movie scene. Well, she went home for reading week, and I went about my regular thing. Another week went by, and we started spending more and more time together (platonically). Last Wednesday, that changed when I told her the full breadth of my emotions for her...basically, I am falling in love with this girl. The first time I leaned in, we just made out for the longest time, and then nothing happened for a while. The second time, I asked her " Can I ask one more selfish favour"? (She had made up her mind she was staying with her bf, which makes what comes next both worse and better depending on the viewpoint), she says sure, so I asked for another kiss. Well, we kissed, we groped, we pulled at each other and eventually I ended up stripping her naked and getting her off with my mouth and hands. We talked about it after and agreed it was an amazing thing, but we were just friends. (Yeah right) This morning, we arrived at her place around 3:30am, everything was just like normal between the two of us, joking around and having a good time. We got to her place and I could tell she was hesitant to let me come in, as it had become normal for her to just pull me in. I sort of assumed she was worried about whether something was going to happen, yet I wasn't strong enough to walk away, so I gave her an out. She didn't take it however, so in we went. This is where some context is needed, which may confuse the situation even more. She is a very open asexual, and completely oblivious to how arousal works on a surface level. For her, sex is like a really awesome roller coaster, she can live without it but it's really awesome to get it. Also, I will describe her, biased as I am, before I get into the good stuff (provided you are still reading). She is about 5'5, dark brown hair that's down past her shoulders, the biggest blue/ grey eyes you ever saw, a wide smile... ahhh, what am I kidding, you guys only care about the tits and ass. Well, suffice to say she is stacked in both areas in the best way possible ;) So I am giving her a back rub, something I am fairly good at and we both enjoy just chilling like that. The conversation turns to why she was hesitant about wanting to have me come in, and turns out she sort of expected what had happened on Wednesday to happen again. To cut the crap, it did. We started making out, gently at first. She has really supple, soft lips, kissing them is like eating candy essentially. This slowly turned into more aggressive play, some rubbing and more angst ridden kissing. She is very sensitive, so as soon as I started kissing my way down her neck her breathing started to pick up and the action was under way. I hate to make this a long winded intro and a short bit of the naughty stuff, bit I will be level with you guys, I am exhausted. We were at it for nearly two hours. I did things to her that no one ever had before, found things she liked A LOT that she will have to find some way to convey to her bf. The highlights was when I discovered she was incredibly sensitive along her inner thighs, so that was the prime location for attention the third time I brought her to orgasm. Always gratifying to hear "Wow" and "God" and "Fuck that feels amazing". Now you may be wondering, and no, I didn't fuck her. We finished and realized "Oh, the sun is coming up. OMG look at your back!" Yeah, she is a scratcher and biter, woman after my own heart. The really fun part of the story comes when we start to talk about if I was alright with the fact that we didn't actually fuck. She said she was glad cause she wouldn't have to order another pack of vegan condoms (yes that is a thing, calm down). So this piqued my interest, as to why she would have to do so, and she bursts into laughter! When she finally calmed down, she said she would show me, easier than explaining. So she grabs her pack of condoms and sits beside me and points out the word "maxi" printed in bold lettering on the top of the package. At this point, I don't really get what she is trying to say, until it registers that she was implying that I might have a smaller penis than her bf. I know I am not the biggest guy in the world, and I am quite secure with my size, so I asked her how big her bf was. Evidently he is only .3 inches bigger than I am, so no real big deal haha. TL:DR. Hook up with friend who has a bf twice, amazing sex both times, no actual penis involved, but at least we now know I wouldn't disappoint her!