[MF] How to end a dry spell: "stick it in and get on with it". | 2016

Over 10 years ago I (25m) was living with my gf (22f) who we'll call Anne. We had a good relationship and a good sexlife. In April when new semester started her work/study schedule increased to a point where she was always doing either one or the other for 12+ hours a day, including weekends. This stressed her our and started to kill her sex drive.

I took over much more of the household chores and tried to be supportive, but as May came and went we dropped from doing it daily to maybe once a week. The incident I'm about to describe took place on a Thursday evening in the middle of June about after about a 10 day dry period but let's start on Monday evening. After cuddling on the sofa and watching an episode or two of something we brush our teeth and head to bed.

At this point it should be noted that we both sleep naked. When we got into bed and cuddled I also immediately began to poke her. That's poke her with my erect penis if you need it spelled out for you. As my poking and caressing of certain areas (boobs, tummy, venus mound) went uncontested I started getting excited and edged closer to her clit, which unfortunately caused her to put her and on mine and stop me. She just wanted to cuddle and sleep but promised we could do more next evening.

It wasn't to be, I came home just in time for "bed time" but since I had been outside in the rain she claimed I was cold and didn't want to cuddle much and just wanted us to hold hands in bed. We made plans for the next day, Wednesday, if you're keeping track, where we went out for a meal and a cocktail or two. Despite many kisses, including quite a few on her ass while she was brushing her teeth, in bed it was a repeat of Monday. She was exhausted and feel asleep quickly so that night I got back up, looked at porn on my pc for ages and masturbated several times.

This final brings us to Thursday, I had cooked one of her favourite meals which we enjoyed while watching an episode of something, followed by cuddling and more TV. Eventually we got ready for bed and again we're lying there naked with me spooning her. My penis was fully extended and poking between her but cheeks. At 1.76 she's only 3cm shorter than my height of 1.79 so spooning brings her bum to just the right place for me to stick my penis between her cheeks without encroaching on her anus. Let me finish your mental image of us before I go on. I'm always clean shaven and because used to do a lot of swimming so I had a good upper body and especially good legs and at 25 I hadn't yet gained any flabbiness. Anne is very slim, only 62kg but decently busty (80c), super cute eyes, kisseable mouth, an old scare on her cheek and forehead and nice long powerful legs.

As in the previous days she rebuffed my attempts at initiating sex. This day though something burst in me, I started complaining about all the small things that bothered me, she of course countered with denials and complaints of her own and soon we were fighting about everything including how we fight. Then of course the fight came to the topic of sex. She accused me of letting horneyness cloud my judgement and I attacked her for breaking her promises with regards to sex. Eventually she had enough of our argument and said she wanted to sleep and put the light out in the middle of one of my sentences, which I pointed out was very rude, because I had just listened to her and would like to address her points.

As arguments go this one was vicious but contained to the bedroom. No storming of, no chucking oranges, we both stayed huddled under the blankets with perhaps only our legs touching. I finished saying whatever I wanted to say when she had put out the light which ended with a suggestion to improve communication and me asking what she thought about it. She just looked at me and asked if I was done speaking and if she could put out the light. I objected and asked her again what she thought about my proposal.

Sex starts here

She ignored that and countered that she now regretted not having had sex an hour ago. I agree saying I would also have preferred sex to this argument. Her answer to that is etched into my memory ever since: "if it will end this argument then just stick it in and get on with it". Despite catching me off guard I was so horny she didn't have to ask my twice, answering "ok" I rolled on top of her and tried to kiss her which she only accepted on her cheek.

Her leg were together when I rolled on top of her and she stiffened them when I tried to open them wide. I didn't open them as much as I planned but enough so that both my knees fit between them. I had been horny for a long while including during the whole argument and there was a lot of precum on my penis. So much that entering her without lube or foreplay was very easy, I guided my penis in with one hand and held myself up with the other. Once the tip was in I slowly push deeper until I was fully inside and looked down at Anne's brilliant boobs

It felt so so good to finally be in a pussy again and my gf was hot. I gazed at her nice flat tummy, squeezed one of her magnificent boobs, then kissed it and gave its nipple a little suck while starting to slowly move my penis in and out with a high amplitude but quite slowly. The only thing that wasn't nice was her upset looking frown and her refusal to French kiss.

After enjoying some slow sex, I started fucking her a bit harder and tried to adjust the position but she stiffened again and didn't let me change the position even when I asked her to, so I continued as we were. I considered just finishing quickly, it was obvious by now that I wasn't going to get her anywhere close to orgasming, but decided against it since it was so good to be having sex again and she had agreed to it after all. I fucked hard for a good period of time and then let my weight down on her. This allowed me to adjust her legs so that I could go in deep. Fucking her deep like was pure bliss.

I enjoyed and got harder and harder until she asked me not to go so hard. I slowed down and a asked: "Do you want to go on top?" "Can you just finished please" was her response. I agreed and got a rhythm going that I know would get me to cum. I didn't go bunny rabbit on her and fuck her crazy fast, what I did was fast and as much amplitude as possible. Within about 2min I was nearing the edge and then I came big and pumped her full of my cum, of which there wasn't even that much thanks to my multi solo session the night before.

Totally spent I collapsed on top of her, kissed her, kissed her nipple, her tummy and then her pussy before lying doing besides her. I grabbed some tissues, tossed her a few and we cleaned up. We then cuddled a bit and went to sleep.

This woke my desire for sex with girls who don't want, nothing violent just sex where she isn't into it. We were together for almost two years after that and while I got to do things that seemed more creepy than what I described, this incident felt the worse to me.