Does this count as cheating? M(28) F(29) GF(27) F(25) | 2016

This happened three years ago, but it still circulates in the back of my mind.

So me and my longterm gf had broken up pretty badly. I ended it. It was not well done and a lot of people go hurt. So my ex gf was blonde, extremely pretty with really big tits, not fat but not skinny either, petite figure with a small petite butt. Amazing legs and loved giving head. She was kind of vanilla though but did kinky stuff with me from time to time.

Dayna: Petite, black hair, nice smile, small A cup boobs, fit, pretty tall like almost 5'8. But the thing that separated her from other girls at work was her ass. Even in a pencil skirt the way it curved and jiggled as she walked around the office was maddening.

Lilly: Now this girl also worked in the office and had her cubical right next to mine. So we talked almost every single day. She is a total paper bag head, not really pretty but the body is 9/10, pretty tall, huge huge ass, DDs with pierced nipples. Flat stomach and nice ass to look at.

After the breakup I was pretty sad but I thought the best way to get over it would be to move on with someone else. So I work at a company and the work is 9-5, 5 days a week. I knew for some time this one girl named Dayna F(29) thought I was hot. So I started talking to her, she was down the hall from me and worked in the HR department. People from the HR department tends to be kind of bland. But not Dayna. I found that out later. We started emailing at first and then texting and I found out she was very very kinky. I was having fun, it was new, it was different from my vanilla gf. As the texting heated up she told me she loves to be risky with touching and stuff. She openly told me that I can do whatever I want to her at work as long as we can kind of get away with it. I only did once when we were at the break room and it was fully empty. So gradually I started grabbing her ass and squeezing her ass, and twisting her nipples. She was very turned on and so was I but then I had heard someone coming close so I quickly stopped.

So one night a bunch of us went out to another co-workers house for drinks and to go clubbing after work. (I never went clubbing before, the whole idea of it is odd to me) So after a couple of drinks at this co-workers house everyone was pretty loose and feeling good. So we all paired up and got into cars, Dayna offered to drive me. So one by one we left the driveway and our car was the last one to be on the driveway and to pull out. But before Dayna started driving she asked me personal questions and we started talking. She admitted that she is nervous to drive tipsy, so I said hey lets sit here for a little and collect ourselves before we go out. She agreed. After talking for a little bit, we were having a really good time while still in the driveway. My plan all along was to just kiss this girl. So in the middle of the conversation she pauses and kisses me. I was surprised, but then we keep kissing and soon enough making out. She grabs my cock while kissing me and I pull it out, she immediately puts her mouth on it and starts bobbing up and down. My main concern was neighbors seeing this, and both of us ignoring texts from our friends already at the club. She says she will make me cum quick so I agree, and she keeps going at it sucking the tip while stroking me. I decide to pull up her pencil skirt pull her panties down and finger her. She was extremely wet. Since I know this girl is super kinky I decide to finger her asshole at that too. She moans louder than ever as soon as i push my middle finger all the way up her ass hole. This moan causes me to cum in her mouth without permission, and she swallows like a champ. But she doesn't stop sucking until I have to push her off. She pulls her head up and has a grin of a job well done. I am just catching my breathe. She looks at her phone and gets mad at me for not telling her the number of texts she had gotten from our friends, I apologize; and then she drives us to the night club. Later that night, it was all groping, grinding and me feeling very outta place because of it being my first time. I didn’t fit in, I couldn't dance so I just drank a lot, and then woke up in my bed alone the next morning. Dayna had taken care of me.

So Lilly F(25) and I started texting as soon as I ended my relationship, same time as Dayna. So one night while texting Lilly out of no where admitted she liked me and told me that there was a reason why she wanted me to smoke with her all the time. It was cuz she liked me. I was intrigued. I thought I should make this interesting. We started dirty talking. Then next thing I know she's sending me nudes at the same time Dayna is telling me how tight her asshole is and how she wants me to fuck her raw. I had been in a relationship a long time and I got attention from women frequently. But you know how it is to wonder, to think if the girls would go for you or not. Now at least i know hahah. Back to the story, I quickly found out Lily liked to be dominated, and quickly formed a sub/dom relationship. She referred to me as daddy, and kept begging for my cock and sending me nudes constantly. It was fun sitting next to her at work and throughout 9-5 shift, me and her always talked like nothing was happening. So one day I invited her to my apartment and the deal was that she was only gonna blow me. I told her no panties and to dress like a slut. She wore a tight short skirt and so short that if she bends over you can clearly see her pussy. A low low cut blouse where you can see the pierced nipples. She parked far walked to my door texted me, and I let her in and kissed her and told her to get on her knees, she started sucking me off, she was bad at it. Nothing like my ex, nothing like Dayna. She couldn't deep throat. Truly the worst bj I had ever gotten, and to stop this disappointment, I just decided to fuck her, told her to get on my bed, and rubbed lube on her pussy, put a condom on and started fucking her doggy style, she kept yelling out “daddy fuck me daddy” and next thing I know I am cumming within like 3 stokes. She was bad at the bj, but I disappointed her in the sex cuz her ass juggling as I hit it from the back and her calling me daddy was just too much. I didn't like the sex, sex with my ex gf was much better, and way more special. And the only good thing was her ass jiggling and nothing else. We made a little conversation and she ended up leaving by herself. Perfect. We didn't text for the rest of that day.

1 month later me and my ex got back together and I kept all this to myself. I broke it off with Dayna, and Lilly. Dayna really liked me but she understood and she was also fooling around with another guy that she started dating shortly after. (Dayna and Jack are married now, see them from time to time on Facebook.)

So was this cheating? Me and my ex talked the entire time we were broken up and knew we had feelings for each other, but we just needed to be alone I guess. Even now that I am with my gf, I wonder if I should have fucked Dayna or not back then. I had the opportunity to and to fuck Lilly multiple times again, but I didn't. Even though me and my gf officially were broken up at the time, I was not ready to make this a regular thing with them. Me, Dayna, and Lilly talked all the time at work during our lunch breaks, but they don't know about each other. I do like knowing they have both had my cock in their mouth. I also like seeing other guys hit on them constantly and wanting to fuck them but can’t or at least is trying to.

Just wanted to share, long time lurker and had to make a reddit account for the first time to post anything. Would like to know what y'all think about this.

Edit 1: I would really like to know what you all think, so please feel free to pm or comment. I dont care about the up votes, I care on what you all think about this situation. So please let me know.