The first time I ever made a guy cum, or a guy made me cum. (m/m) | 2016

Ok, where to start. This just happened, I mean the guy just walked out the door, I had a piece of pie to get the taste of cock out of my mouth, and sat right down here.

I'll start with setting the stage. I'm a 44 y/o good looking slim, fit, & active guy. My GF "Jill" is 29, and she has trouble keeping up with me. She and I met at a sex party at the beginning of the year. She lives with me now, and sex is our hobby. We do it all; orgies, small group play, kink & BDSM. That's actually how this thing with the guy today (I'll call him "Tim") started.

I posted onto /r/r4r that I was looking for a kink play partner. Tim contacts me because he sees we live near each other. He says he's not kinky but down with playing with a guy. I've never done that before, but I've fantasized about it and talked with Jill about it.

When she got home last night that was almost the first thing I told her. "Some guy is coming over tomorrow for sex." She was excited for me.

So today comes, Jill leaves for work, I straighten the house and Tim shows up right on time. He's a 20 y/o tall slim ethnically Asian boy. I'm a bit nervous, and I guess he is too. We smoke a bowl (legal here) and start to chat. We do some history, telling each other what we have and haven't done with guys. (He gets to hear a story about a full on giant orgy me and Jill went to which was the first time I ever had a dick in my mouth.) We talk about kink. I tell him about the difference between D/s, sensation & pain, and humiliation. (they are distinct choices. you can pick more than one, but you can separate them out too. I tell him the story of punching a woman consensually for an hour with 0.00% D/s, humiliation, or anything sexual) He doesn't seem too into it, so that stuff is off the table.

At this point it has been enough talking, so we take off our clothes. He's got pretty dark skin and a long slim body, so I run my hands all over it, but not for long. I pretty much go straight to his cock. It jumps at my touch, so after a few strokes I put my mouth on it. Strong taste of salt and musk. I suck for a while and play with his perineum and hole. After a while of that we make it into 69. ("You're really thick" he exclaims. Good for the ego) He does a good job of taking me really deep.

I'm getting hot and horny. I tell him I want to fuck him in the ass, but he's not ready for that. (He also doesn't want to fuck me in the ass.) Instead, he let's me put a finger up his ass. I finger his prostate while I suck his dick. That was fun. He needs a break from that, so we brake.

He ask me to suck his nipples, which is fun. I've been sucking girls nipples since I was 15, so this is old territory, only he is completely flat.

More dick sucking ensues, until we need another break. I go wash my hands (the fingers had been in his butt) and when I return I get out my butt plug. (I've got an Aneros. Highly recommend if you want to try what it feels like to stimulate your prostate)

I suck him with the toy in his ass. I'd love to make him cum like this, but no dice. We take it out after a while, wash it off and switch. I get really close to cuming witht he toy in my ass that he's playing with and his mouth on my cock. I tell him (don't bust a load in someones mouth without warning) and he backs off.

I get done with the toy in my ass. We take a break. I'm getting done with the whole thing, but I really want to make this guy cum. I pull out the lube and slather it all over his dick. He tells me he is close so I start talking dirty to him while I do everything to his cock with my hand that I think would feel nice if done to me. In the dirty talk I tell him I want to fuck his sweet little ass while my GF sits on his face. That does it, BAM.

We trade one last time. He strokes me with his hand, I give him instructions about what feels good to me, and I start talking dirty again. BAM. Achievements unlocked. First time I made a guy cum, first time a guy made me cum, and the same badges for him.

That was the end of it. We got dressed, talked amiably. "Maybe we will do this again, maybe my GF wants to join us." That type of stuff. Gave him a big hug and a high 5 and sent him on his way.

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