I think I've found the king of foreplay | 2016

I met.. THE sexiest man.. ever... I'm helpless and its really really bad. We met though mutual friends and we all went out for a good time the other week and had a lot of fun together from beginning to end. We drank a little bit and then in the cab out of nowhere he started holding my hand- total hearts and butterflies (that sounds so middle school I know) and it was really sweet and thats all that happened. We exchanged numbers and went our separate ways. We saw each other a few times after that and he never expressed much more than a lingering glance in my direction but there was always the spark.. like he was teasing me or something. He always invited me to hang out with him around his friends but then we were always casual, me never giving him more than a hug. THEN one night he asked me to "hang out" (by which time his fate was about sealed in the friend zone) so I felt fine going to see him. Now our group of friends are notoriously nocturnal so I didn't think much about it being a little late. So I got to his house, us being quiet so as not to wake his roommates, and after his giving me the brief tour I took a seat on his couch. We were watching a film and not touching each other at all, and there was this electricity which was just crazy; I was seriously turned on from nothing. Then he asked me out of nowhere, "Do you want a back rub?" To which of course I answered yes, because when doesn't a lady want a neck rub? So he scooted back and open up a spot between his legs for me to sit. I scooted over and sat. He started with my neck, rubbing out all of the sore spots, before starting with light strokes of his fingers trailing from the nape of my neck down my shoulders and further to my fingers. By this point I was so horny it was alarming, even to me who is used to being very sensitive. Then he whispered for me to lay back so that my back was to his front, my ass just touching his crotch. He then continued to trail his fingers down my arms, but after a while he started down my torso. Starting from my neck his fingers traveled down my body, barely touching me, and very careful not to touch my breasts- over my collarbone and around them, down to my hips and up my belly- and repeat. Then gently he kissed my neck, first a peck but then with a little tongue (which absolutely sent goosebumps over every bit of skin on my body) and then went right back to just hands. He asked me, "Is this alright?" and.. dang it was so much more than alright.. so I managed to whimper that it was. After minutes of this I was practically panting, and finally I led his hands to my breasts so he could touch them- because I needed him to. That was the green light.. and he went full out, grabbing all he could along with his hot breath and kisses on my neck and shoulders with small bites across my collar bone until my shirt stopped him. That seemed unacceptable so he ripped it out of his way and laid me down beneath him so that he was above me on the couch. With one of his legs between my two, he gave me the first of our kisses.. he trailed his tongue on my top lip but teased me, not giving me what I needed at that point. Then finally he did, and we were lost for a while- our lips so in sync that I almost couldn't tell them apart, until a sharp bite on my lower lip brought me back to the surface of reality. Then he pulled back and looked me in the eye while grinding his pelvis into mine, his breathing very rugged at that point. He then sat up abruptly and took a deep breath, just looking at me. For some reason unknown, he sat back on the couch and went no further. He undressed me, and then he just went back to trailing his fingers lightly all over my naked body. The way he was looking at me was so raw, and his fingers so fluid and gentle.. We laid there like that for some time, not even talking. It got very late and I decided I should go home to put that all in order, so I stood and dressed myself. I looked in the mirror and found that I had a hickey on my neck and a bruise on my lip (didn't remember when that happened), we laughed and I took my leave. So now this is where I stand. Very confused by this guy with his hot and cold, and now railroaded by what was the hottest not-sex of my life. I guess now I'll wait to see what happens?