The first night of six months of swapping with (m)y wi(f)e and three other couples | 2016

I had done an NSFW Ask Me Anything here, and someone suggested I post a more in depth recounting of the events here. This is the first time I’ve posted to gonewildstories, although I’ve been a frequent reader of them and have commented and favorited stories from my primary account.

My wife Kristin and I have a close group of friends who we met through our kid’s preschool. We all get together almost every weekend at one of our houses to hang out and drink and let the kids play. This story focuses on three of the couples, a subset of a slightly larger group. When you mix friends and alcohol in a group you have known for a couple years, sex will inevitably come up. One weekend back in late February or early March of this year, we were talking about a rumor about a nearby neighborhood where supposedly, if you have garden gnomes in your front yard, it means you are a swinger. One of the couples (Mike and Gina) has a couple gnomes, and someone accused them of being swingers. Another quickly said, “not that there's anything wrong with it, hell, I'd swing with you guys!” Everyone laughed it off, and then that spurred a conversation about how much better it would be knowing the people as opposed to strangers.

After that night, the next week, the four wives had gotten together for a ladies lunch, and had a couple glasses of wine when the conversation returned to the subject of the swinging/swapping. Everyone is of pretty comparable levels of attractiveness, and one of the reasons we’ve all been able to keep this group consistently together over the years is that the women all get along really well with each other and the men, and the same for the men. Apparently they all decided that they would slyly broach the subject of the swapping during sex, and then gauge reaction, and then confirm the level of interest the next morning when back to just normal interactions. Kristin first mentioned it when I was going down on her. She was on her back, legs spread, and I was alternating between sucking her clit and flicking it with my tongue, when she said to me, “do you ever wonder what one of our friends would taste like? What about Gina, or Karen? Do you wonder what their pussies look like, whether they’re shaved, or waxed?” As she was talking, I could feel her getting wetter, and licked lower to the opening of her pussy which was dripping by this point, “or what about Amy, I bet she’s got a tiny pussy since she’s so petite.” I moaned into her pussy and intensified my oral ministrations, and she came soon after, and then had me lay back and started riding me. I grabbed her ass firmly and she leaned forward and was sucking my lower lip, and licking her wetness from my mouth. I started to spread her cheeks, and could feel the tight ring of her ass starting to stretch open. She started the talk again, “I bet you would love to see me from the vantage point behind me right now. Seeing my ass all open and vulnerable.” I replied, “oh I absolutely would, that would be so hot.”

The next morning, as we were getting lunches ready for school before our kids woke up, she said, “so last night was fun. I don’t know whether you were more turned on by the thought of eating one of our friend’s pussies, or seeing me fuck.” I said, “Well, both turned you on pretty good too, but yeah, those are both great fantasies.” She then said, “Would you want it to be more than a fantasy.” I hesitated and then hemmed and hawed before she said, “don’t worry, it’s not a trick” before explaining to me the conversation the wives had had. After talking through the potential ramifications, jealousy issues, etc. we decided we were on board. It turns out the other husbands were similarly on board, and we decided that the next Saturday night, we would talk through some group ground rules and make a plan for the following weekend.

When we got together on Saturday, while the kids all played, we started to plan out the night. There was a healthy consumption of alcohol, and we started thinking through how we would do it. We wanted to retain some element of surprise, so I came up with the idea of having each of the men number off and put a number on a post-it and put it on one of the doors. We were going to do the first night at Karen and Scott’s house, and they had a 5 bedroom house, so there was room for each couple. Each husband would then tell their wife which number they had, and the wives would go to a different room, and then once settled, the husbands would go to the room they had originally selected. That would provide some initial anonymity (if you could call it that), reduce any sense of “favoritism”, and eliminate the possibility of getting your own spouse. We also discussed ground rules for protection, etc. Each of the wives was on long-term birth control plans, with one of them having her tubes tied, two on Mirena and one with a Depo shot. We discussed whether we wanted to use condoms or not, and given that everyone had been in monogamous relationships for 7 to 10 years, the risks of STDs were pretty minimal. That said, we still wanted to do testing, so Amy gave us the details for tests we could get on Monday.

We then discussed the fact that each “couple” could wind up doing vastly different things, and wouldn’t it be nice to know that everyone is getting to experience generally the same things. It would sort of be like playing seven minutes in heaven, and one couple French kisses while another gets a BJ. You didn’t want someone thinking they missed out by virtue of who they matched with. It was decided that each of the eight of us would grab four index cards, and write the same sex act on each one, and then put each index card in an envelope. The women would take the four envelopes to the room with them when they went to the respective rooms. We decided we would do this the following weekend, assuming no one had second thoughts, so everyone made babysitting arrangements, which for a couple of us, including Karen and Scott, obviously, sending our kids to stay at the grandparents.
This is as good a time as any to describe each of the couples. As I mentioned earlier, my wife is Kristin. She’s 40, a stay at home mom, has blonde, wavy hair a couple inches below her shoulders. Kristin is the tallest of the group at around 5'7", is the most curvaceous, weighing around 150lbs, with 36DD breasts and a round/curvy ass. Her pussy and ass are fully brazilian waxed with no hair.

My name is Jeff, and I’m an attorney, 39 years old. I have sandy blonde short hair that’s thinning, stand about 5'11" and weigh 170 or so. I have a pretty average cock, 6 1/2 to 7 in length, 1 3/4 diameter (so around 5.5 inches girth) and am circumsized.

Karen is probably Kristin’s best friend of the group, also 40 and also a stay at home mom. She is a brunette with straight hair just above shoulder length. She’s about 5'5" with a thin, athletic build. She’s probably a 32b (small b is my guess), and has really nice legs from running, etc.

Karen’s husband Scott is my best friend of the group as well, and is 39 years old. He is a commercial real estate developer, has brown hair, and is about 6'3" with stocky build, so probably I don't know, 230lbs. He’s the biggest braggart in the group, and is constantly talking about how big his cock is. At this point, it was all talk, so I’ll leave it at that.

Gina is a quasi-stay at home mom, but also has her own business with a part time art gallery thing. She’s also a brunette, with hair mid-way down her back. She’s also around 5'7" or so, and athletic, but not as thin as Karen, and I'd say a 32C or so. Gina does yoga 6 days a week, and definitely has the butt to show for it. Gina is 38 as well.

Gina’s husband Mike is in the food and beverage distribution business and owns his own company. He’s got brown hair, but super short, and is also thinning. He's probably 6'1" or 6'2", with a pretty muscular build, but also with some early 40s weight put on. He’s 43 years old.

Amy is the smallest of the group, and is 37 years old. A part time nurse, she has long blonde hair, is probably 5'2", but comparatively curvy, with I think around a 34D or so. Amy has a nice ass as well, curvy, but compact. Amy’s husband is Sam, who is the only non-white member of the group, middle-eastern (Jordanian I think), shaved head, about 6'1", in really good shape and works out a lot. Sam is a radiologist.

So, the following weekend, we all show up at Karen and Scott’s house around 8. They’ve got music playing on the speaker system throughout the house, not really loud enough to be overwhelming, but enough to add an ambience that should help avoid awkward pauses and silence. We all start with a drink, but as discussed, we were going to limit ourselves to one. Scott has me go over the plan for the night, and each of the guys takes their assigned post-it and puts it on one of the doors. Scott took his bedroom (as #1), which was on one side of the house. I had #2, and took his office, next door, which has a couch that pulls out into a bed. Down the other hallway, Mike (#3), took the guest room, while Sam took their older son’s room. Karen had changed the sheets out in that room, and had put as much of the “kid stuff” away in the closet as possible. Not totally ideal for Sam, but beggars can’t be choosers. I noticed in the room, that Karen had also been thoughtful by setting the lighting at a low enough level not to be glaring, but bright enough to still allow you good visibility into what was going on. She also stocked each room with a couple types of lube and babywipes.

We returned to the kitchen, where the wives had already filled out their index cards. We each grabbed our four index cards, and put down something we wanted to try that night. Truthfully, I was a little torn… do I do something to push the boundaries in the hopes of getting to fulfill a fantasy with one of these other wives, while at the same time knowing that one of the other husbands would get to do the same thing to my own wife? That would limit perhaps some of the more extreme/kinky fantasies I might have otherwise indulged in. I certainly wasn’t going to put down something she and I hadn’t tried yet. I finally decided what I would write down, and put it into the envelope. You could see the anticipation and nerves on everyone’s faces. A couple of the couples were holding hands as we got ready to have the wives take the envelopes and go to pick the rooms. I reminded everyone that the goal was to get comfortable, start making out and fooling around, and then open the envelopes and figure out together how you want to get through the list. You’d have 90 minutes or so together, and then we’d all regroup in the living room and talk before calling it a night. We decided to do one more shot to lessen the nerves, after which the wives then left and went to the bedrooms. The guys kept their backs to the hallways so we wouldn’t see who went which direction. Once the wives had been in the rooms for a couple minutes, we cut our chit chat, looked at each other, and I think Mike said to us, “well guys, I guess I’ll see you on the other side!” We laughed, did a fist bump and went to our assigned rooms.

I get to the office, and was happy to see Karen there. She’s wearing a pretty short, loose navy blue dress, and has a sexy pair of wedge heels on. She’s wearing a typical amount of makeup, not overly done, but you can tell she put effort into looking good tonight. She’s in my opinion probably the best looking other than my own wife, of course, but most importantly, I really love her personality. She busts balls, and is just plain fun to hang out with. There’s a couple seconds of awkward shuffling, and then I walk up to her, give her a hug and then tilt my head down to give her a kiss. What starts as a soft, open mouth kiss quickly turns into making out. I reach down and am grabbing her ass through the dress, and then move a hand to the front of the dress. I start to rub her pussy through her panties, and she reciprocates by stroking my cock, which has gotten over any nervousness and is quickly gaining length and hardness to get to full mast.

After a few minutes of making out like this, we decide to open the envelope and look at the list of things on it. We pull out the first one, which reads ‘Give the Man a Rimjob’, and she raises her eyebrows. She says to me, “wow, you guys just decided to go for it”, as you could tell it was written by a guy. The next one, also in guy’s handwriting says, ‘Deepthroating. The third, written in a woman’s flowing script, reads just ‘69’. The fourth is also in a guy’s handwriting and says, ‘titty fucking’. Karen looks at me and shakes her head saying, “my asshole husband wants to try a titty fuck” and then starts laughing. The next one reads ‘rimming the woman’s ass’, and I immediately recognize the handwriting as my wife Kristin’s. She very much likes it, and I’m not terribly surprised she put it down. After that we pull out, “cowgirl position” in a woman’s handwriting, and then “prostate massage while giving head” also in a woman’s script. The last card reads, “Anal Sex”, in my own handwriting. I wasn’t going to take any chances on not being able to take one of the wives anally tonight.

We went back to making out, and after a few minutes, I bent her over the bed, lifted her dress, and peeled her bright magenta thong down. My heart was pounding at this point, her petite ass in front of me. I could see that similar to my wife, it appeared she got Brazilian waxes, and must have had one in the couple days before. Her pussy and ass were immaculate, no hair and rather well-proportioned labia with a nice size clit and hood. I immediately started to lick her ass and then reached around to rub her clit. I alternated between licking her ass and her pussy/clit for a while. Then she says your turn, and undid my belt and took off my pants and underwear. As I was laying back on the office bed, I realized I could barely hear the noises from the room next door, where I knew Scott was with one of the other wives. He was sort of moaning and saying “oh yeah” a lot. It was rather hot to listen to, knowing that one of the other wives was pleasuring him while I was pleasuring his wife in return.
Karen starts giving me really wet head, pushing it to the back of her throat, causing that thick saliva to form. She started to take it down her throat, which felt absolutely amazing. She then came back up, and then had me sit and lean back a little more, licking down to my balls, taking them into her mouth, then putting her tongue on my taint. She went back to my cock, more deepthroating, and more of the thick saliva. Then back down, and I feel her tongue licking all over my ass, rubbing that saliva on my ass with her tongue, then starting to work her tongue into my ass itself. Not going to lie, that felt, pretty fucking great. She licks back up to my taint, to my balls, then back to my cock, and I feel her rubbing a finger along my asshole, then sliding inside and up to my prostate. It took everything I had not to blow a huge load that second. I asked her to chill a little, she takes her finger out and slides up to try to titty-fuck me. She can’t really make cleavage, so she slid my cock against her breasts and we both laughed.

She then asked me to lay down and swung her body around and we started to 69. I love 69ing, so we have a good time of it. She’s great at oral, and in this position, my cock is really easy for her to take in her mouth and throat, while my focus is on her clit, pussy and ass, keeping me from getting too close. We do this for about 15 minutes or so, and then she kind of lifts up and then brings her hips down to my waist and slides her pussy over my cock, kind of rubbing it back and forth against her clit and lips before putting it against the hole and then sliding down for a reverse cowgirl. The feeling of sliding into a new pussy after 10 years of being with Kristin and Kristin alone is electrifying. I start to grab Karen’s ass, put my thumb against her asshole, and start to rub. She says something to the effect of, “give me a minute there, don’t worry, we’ll get there.”

Karen then lifts up and turns around, slides my cock back in her mouth, and then re-straddles me, sliding me back in her pussy. She rides me until she cums, then says, “okay, one more to go I guess. I haven’t ever done this with him, as I always get nervous and back out when he puts the head against me.” I tell her I’ll take my time, and to lay back. As I’m getting ready, I can hear more of the bodies next door slapping hard against one another really quickly. It’s making my already hard erection even harder.

I start eating Karen’s pussy again, go down and lick her ass, and then start to massage it with one, and then two fingers, before sliding both in. We grab some of the thicker lube that was set out in the room, and I fuck her ass with my fingers, slowly dilating it. Once I could get three fingers in and she was enjoying that sensation, I had her get on her knees in a doggy style position. I positioned my cock at the opening and then slid my cock in and went slowly for the first 5 minutes or so. She moaned lightly, and I asked if she was okay, to which she replied “yes, I wish Scott would have prepared me like that, that was great.” Then I sped up a little. She was starting to get into it, and I could feel her reaching down and rubbing her clit. She asked, “Can we change positions? This feels good, but I want you to touch me while we do this.” She then had me lie back and she straddled me with my cock against her asshole, and then slid down. She rode me and had me rub her clit with my thumb. Watching her enjoying my cock in her ass was making me hard as diamonds. She was getting really wet, and starting to moan, and when she started to cum, I could feel the muscles in her ass clenching around my cock. That pushed me over the edge, and I blew a huge load right into her, and used my hands to pull her down so I was balls deep when I did it, all the while we were locked eye to eye. We waited a minute or so while my cock twitched inside her, at which point she looks at me and says, ‘holy shit, that was intense.’ I then pulled out, she got up, pulled on her thong, and then pulled her dress back over her head. I got dressed and we walked back out to the living room to have a drink with everyone.

When we got to the living room, it was just Sam and Gina in the room, and they were sipping red wine and sitting next to each other on the couch. Karen and I grabbed glasses and joined them, soon to be followed by Scott and Kristin. I felt a wave of nerves and horniness both wash over me as I realized that I was listening to the two of them go at it when I could hear noises from the other room. A few minutes later, Amy and Mike emerged from the guest room, and joined us. We didn’t really get into details much in the group, other than to realize that we all had a great time, and we definitely wanted to try it again. Mike in particular said he definitely wanted to try it, as he and Amy didn’t get to try everything on the list, as he blew his second load of the night inside her pussy while she was riding him, so he missed out on anal. We asked him where the first one went, and Amy laughingly stuck out her tongue and then made a swallowing motion. We all laughed and the guys ribbed him for being too quick on the trigger.

We discussed when we could next try to do something and what we wanted to do. We decided to go with a more unstructured night, without the index cards, but wanted to have everyone try another partner. Since basically it was an even swap between two couples and two other couples, we’d do it at Karen and Scott’s house again, this time with Karen and Kristin taking the rooms on one side of the house, and Gina and Amy taking the other two rooms. Scott and I would go to the other side, while Mike and Sam would go to the master/office side. Since a couple of the wives would be out of commission the following week with that time of the month, we’d do the next one two weeks from that first night. We still all hung out the following week, just in a normal setting with the kids, etc. After a couple more glasses of wine, we all headed home. On the quick drive back, I asked Kristin what she thought of Scott, and she said it was a lot of fun, and she thinks he enjoyed himself too. I said, “I’m sure he did” and let her know that I heard him and both of them a couple times. She asked about Karen and I said we both enjoyed ourselves too. When we got home, the kids were at my parents’ house, and the talk of the evening had us both horny and me really hard. The first thing Kristin did was pull my cock out and start giving me head. After about 5 or 6 sucks, she pulled back, looked up at me and said, "you finished in her ass didn't you, and you didn't clean off. You fucker!" And then went back to it. The eroticism of that scene had me blowing my second load of the night down her throat within minutes. We went to bed, and had sex one more time in the spooning position the next morning.

Over breakfast that next morning, Kristin shared with me how her night went, and a couple days later, I met up with Scott and we traded war stories about our respective wives. If you enjoyed the way I wrote this, I can write up how their night went, as well as the subsequent meetups with the group. We’ve been at it off and on since March now, and have done a number of different variations. If you have questions, or comments, feel free to post them here, or on the AMA I did. Otherwise, I hope you enjoyed!